Come Again?

for some reason he’s gotten hotter, if it was hm…but still if it was him…GASP :O bad JAY…YOU NAUGHTY HOTTIE…i dont mind it really it was a long time ago…and it’s probably fake…or not…hmmmm. but netizens need to stop pmsing over everything….

it was him! but no worries, he’s apologised!

Hello everyone this is 2PM’s Park Jaebum. I would like to apologize on behalf of the comments I had made through Myspace a few years ago. I’m sorry.

As I tell all of you about how I felt that time, I also would like to apologize. In January of 2005, I came to Korea as a high school student. I was born in the States and I had insufficient knowledge of how Korea is. Being it my first time, I couldn’t communicate with others, my taste buds didn’t fit, and I barely knew the culture which I couldn’t understand. I felt as though I was treated coldly by the people around me as my family was left in the States. It was such a difficult situation where I didn’t even know if I was going to debut. Due to many hardships, things were getting too hard and I was getting lonely being homesick. I had the thoughts of quitting and I wanted to go back to my family in the States. The comment based on the Korea part: I wrote that because of my personal situation I was placed in and my emotions took over. I was too young and said things in the wrong words. I was too foolish, young, and facing difficulties where I made the mistake into turning my surroundings worse. Time passed by and I forgot that I had even written them. I am now embarrassed and truly sorry of those comments I had made. After that time, I had adjusted to everything and my thoughts have changed tremendously as I thank the people around me to get me to perform on stage in any situation. Those comments were made four years ago, but I am a different person now. To my family, Hottests, members of 2PM, and those who love 2PM, I am truly sorry. From now on, I hope that there will be no mistakes like this ever again. I will say it one more time that I am truly sorry.

-2PM’s Jaebum-

………….O.O…….?…..

Yeah, what was written in those comments are very rude and ignorant, but we can’t keep holding them over Jaebeom. I don’t condone those comments, but those were from 3 years ago. Obviously, Jaebeom has become more mature, and he even apologized. He has proven himself to be a capable leader and really, an adult. As kids, we do stupid things. Jay’s gotten over it, netizens should, too

^^ If what I said and did 4-5 years ago was held against me today….

I would spontaneously combust. For real. I was an idiot and I’m pretty much Jays age, I moved a year after he did and I said some stupid things… So, I can relate.

Lucky for me, I DELETED ALL EVIDENCES! I never knew I used that language until I came across my old livejournals and blogs. Damn, how a few years can change you. That’s why I do believe that if those comments were authentic Jay could be a whole different person now. One that can actually understand the weight of the words he speaks and/or writes.

yes hes still our jay….or my concubine…..he was young and dumb…..cant really hold it against him….

^^ Honestly, I feel sorry for him. He’s a Korean in Korea, imagine the crap he’s gonna get after that.

With how proud people are nowadays it’s difficult to get an apology, let alone a sincere one.

Look at SNSD, how many things have they done wrong, and where are their apologies? This was sincere, honest and made instantly. Closed his myspace and swallowed his pride.

Leadja, indeed.

I never thought I’d find myself on this site ever again until I was linked.

I can’t even say that I’m surprised that once a male idol screws up, female fans are quick to try and hope for the best, think positive things. “Maybe it’s not him, maybe it’s some poser”. Yet if a female idol screws up, every female anti fan and their mama wants to turn against her.

Man, female fans/anti fans are so vicious to other females. It’s kinda sad.

I don’t know what to say about Jay. I know he apologized and given the circumstances that he stated, which some can relate to, it’s easy to understand. However, it’s still wrong. And if female idols get shit over “similar” circumstances, I’ll be damned if Jaebeom doesn’t.
But hey, I guess double standards are counted everywhere.

And to further add, SNSD has apologized for for whatever things they were accused for, not all even proven with evidence. But for the things that people accuse them of that they truly do believe they never did, why apologize? I’d hate to do that if I did nothing wrong, wouldn’t you?

-sLaVe

Think of it this way, if all the comments you made to your friends, in private, were released for the world to read… Would you have a clean record?

This is a message to us all, to be careful on the internet, especially with our identities and the words we say. Manners and etiquette translate to everything we use as a form of communication.

Things do come bite you in the ass.

As for Jay, he gets a lot of respect from me. Most celebrities would just deny it and move on. It takes a man to ‘fess up and apologize. I didn’t care much about him before but now I realize that he’s a dude worthy of my respect.

I wanna call him Hyung.

Hey commy, misogyny wants you to stop slandering it’s name by associating them with this site.

Go back to your Nazi lair and leave this place alone.

You reek of delusion.

P.s. Ironic that you’re called sLaVe, eh?

I wonder what you think an “apology” is…

i kinda agree with slave ONLY about the fan girl going after girls only….if a popular guy was even scene with a girl she automatically gets anti’s….not to mention dating…the guy never gets called out the girls gets the anti’s, even if he wanted to get with her….remember the elf thing? where the girl committed suicide because she was seen backstage with shindong, elfs harassed to the grave…she went on a diet and lost a lot of weight…and because of a shoulder touch…they harassed her. if dbsk were to date a girl the world would probably end lol

@sLaVe:

Whooa ho ho, you scare me with your delusion.

It’s humorous that you’ll jump to conclusions about the people that run this place because of your ill feelings towards them.

Hey, isn’t that what you’re accusing ShenYuePop of? Pre-judging…

I bet if it was another site, you wouldn’t say the same thing.

Sad how SNSD fans judge ShenYuePop. Man, SNSD fans/SYP anti fans are so vicious to ShenYuePop. It’s kinda sad.

If you weren’t stuck in your little cave, worshipping SNSD, you would have known this place is under new management, if you weren;t so far up on your own high horse you would have the courtesy to actually read the Authors name or recent entries to grasp that the people aren’t the same.

Also, who the hell are you to these writers for you to think that they wouldn’t have said the same thing about a female celebrity?

Let me quote the article since you’re so full of bias against this site that you can’t seem to comprehend the english language:

“Now, we weren’t all born yesterday and we can’t ignore the possibility of authenticity, although I doubt it’s real, but in that case.

Jay should be ashamed of himself, such language and such obvious disregard for his fellow people is inexcusable, and an apology should be issued immediately.”

Funny isn’t it? You hypocrite.

This is the internet, I’m not sure if you’re completely aware of how it works, a lot of forgery and deception goes on on the internet. Everything must be authenticated before someone can make a proper evaluation.

It’s called giving the benefit of the doubt.

Sad, humans nowadays, are so quick to judge people and jump down they’re throat before they can actually properly assess the situation.

These people have more sense than you. If you hadn’t come here in a while, it’s understandable you wouldn’t know of the changes, nevertheless you were quick to jusge, so I’m doing the same.

Don’t mention that SNSD Bulls**t, just cos you’re quick to “forgive” and believe any niceties as truth and not fan fabrication, that’s your own delusion. Don’t force us here, who prefer fact, to believe it too. All I remember was a crappy staff written letter, to THEIR FANS. NOONE ELSE. With a small paragraph and their years activities. So STFU about that.

Redemption is the most important thing with apologies, I don’t recall them cleaning up their acts, they’re still the rude little harpies they were a year ago. Just more scripted.

So please, GTFO. And don’t come back, link or no link.

I sincerely apologize from the bottom of my heart, as a fan of shenyuepop, past and present, that you are a self-righteous SNSD fan that can’t get over their hate for this site.

That your inferiority of having an inferior idol makes you the sore self-righteous idiot that you are today.

That you seem to think that all girls hate on girls because of jealousy, that you prefer to think that it is the only reason because you’re hiding the truth in yourself. There are real reasons why they have so many antis. DUH.

That you are a sad pathetic person, supporting fellow pathetic people who live their lives pretending they are something they’re not, manipulating and using people and not caring about them.

It must suck to feel like you have to send so many large and extravagant gifts to some useless 9 girls. Because otherwise they wouldn’t even use or care about them, or you.

I’m also sorry that you feel like you have to come here and say that, to convince yourself that SYP is a bad place full of bad people.

Again, accept my heartfelt apology, afterall it’s probably the most heartfelt apology SNSD fans have ever/will ever recieve… I am sorry that you have no life.

Sincerely,
SYP fan.

Because it’s a very nice thing for someone that doesn’t even follow this site, to come in with guns a blazing accusing you of being a misogynist.

Erm… sLaVe, please use your brain and think before posting.

Because I gave the guy the benefit of the doubt, on the “honest” internet, doesn’t mean I wouldn’t have said the same thing be it anyone else, male or female.

Please send your accusations to the “Back” button and to whomever linked you.

Talk about malicious intent.

I do believe the SNSD thing was already addressed.

It’s nice of you to judge me, before you even knew who I was, or what sex I am either.

To err is human, to forgive divine

Oh yeah, and sLaVe, entire female population =/= SNSD

Not liking SNSD, doesn’t mean not liking EVERY OTHER FEMALE CELEBRITY.

*rolls eyes*

Funny, posts about SNSD here gets all you SNSD fans riled up, why do you stalk the place you hate so much, or a place labelled as “Anti-SNSD”? Problem is this was a post about 2PM leadja Jaebum, so it has nothing to do with them. Looks like you stalk the comments as well. How desperate.

Just because someone refuses to acknowledge a mistake and think they have done no wrong, does not mean they are right. It just means they are too stubborn and/or proud to acknowledge they have done wrong or wronged someone. Thats not very admirable, is it? Its actually quite self-centered and insensitive.

And you defend that, and even have the gall to compare it to this situation?

And with a post like that, you are no one to be preaching. It seems quite misogynistic really, just because you are an SNSD fan, doesn’t give you an excuse to hate on females and label them as jealous maniacs. I wonder if you’d say that about your own idols?

@Slave

snsd ONLY apologised to their fans, not the other fanclubs. pleaaaaase.

they are as fake as a girl group can be, and you know it. everything seems so scripted with them. everything screams ‘fake’.

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Honestly this whole situation is stupid. I can’t believe people actually got mad about some dumb myspace comments. I understand that he may have disrespected his country or what not, however, this is nonsense. He was young for 1 and for 2 he was talking to his personal friend. People being in his business is disrespectful to him. That’s his personal space. Plus these comments were made how long ago? almost 5 years ago. I don’t think he should have apologized for being himself and talking to his friend. It’s not like he was talking to the whole country of south korea. People go to far sometimes and they just need to get a life and backoff.

What he did was no where near wrong.

I do agree with everyone saying that netizens are far too obsessed with things like this. I really love kpop, and I like to stay up-to-date on news, check kpop sites daily, and I’ll admit, I’m very interested/nosy in kpop idols’ personal lives, but I don’t think I have the same “dedication” as some of those netizens. It seems they really don’t have lives outside of kpop :s or specifically, digging up dirt on these artists.

Although Jay sounded very rude and obnoxious, I sort of feel that he spoke like a typical guy his age. I’m about the age he was when he wrote those, and honestly, my guy friends casually use the language he uses in those messages. Can netizens really feel proud of themselves for gaining up and picking on the complaints of a lonely, confused kid? What am I talking about… of course they can.

Honestly, most idols don’t act any different than regular people their age do. I can really see my guy friends in Super Junior, 2PM, Big Bang (albeit with less skinship), and honestly, I see my friends and I in SNSD, 4Minute, 2NE1, Wonder Girls’ interactions with each other. They are regular people with opinions and feelings, and at times, they let those feelings get the best of them. I know I’ve acted really rudely at times when I’ve been in a bad mood, and I’ve said nasty things I later regret because of it. But the difference is, that since these people are IDOLS, they are always under public scrutiny. Yes, they should definitely be watching their behavior in public because of their positions- it is their RESPONSIBILITY.

But these idols have as much right to privacy as anyone else. They should be able to act casually around their friends when not in view of the public eye, without some obsessed paparazzi attempting to put their behaviour into the public eye. And what happens pre-debut should stay in pre-debut- on one hand, they probably should’ve been more careful because they knew they were training to be on the path of stardom, but on the other hand, they don’t feel famous yet, so they don’t really have this sense, I guess. But ““Keep your words soft and tender because tomorrow you may have to eat them” puts it quite beautifully.

I do think kpop idols- SNSD, Jaebeom, Jessica H.O.- should be forgiven for things they’ve said and done if they’ve apologized. Netizens are just TOO obsessed with this.

While fans are a beautiful thing, and are really what makes a group successful, they really do take it too far. I didn’t find out about the ELF harassing the girl thing until very recently, but I was still shocked and horrified. I guess I can sort of understand, since I was a huge obsessive Good Charlotte fangirl when I was about 12, and I think my heart broke everytime I saw them near a female, lmao. But to go as far as to drive a girl to SUICIDE? Honestly, this is not just schoolgirl jealousy, but a CRIME.

And while I do call myself a fan of SNSD (and Suju, and 2PM, etc, etc), I really think their fans go too far in defending them. I disagree with some of the view of the authors on SNSD, but I think I’m pretty respectful their opinions and I wish other SNSD fans would, too, because it’s those fans that make the rest of us look like uncivilized barbarians. Someone once said something like “The definition of good music is the type of music you like”. And at least the new authors of this site are pretty civilized and reasonable in their criticism of SNSD.

But antis are the worst. I don’t think I’ve ever seen this kind of anti behaviour in any other cultures? :/ I was a pretty big anti of some artists when I was about 11-13, but I completely grew out of it and even grew to respect some of those artists. So I am really, really hoping that the antis right now will also grow out of this “phase”… except it seems some of these crazy obsessive fans and antis are already well into adulthood

I’m really sorry for the rant >.<

^^ You know, just because we have a conflict in views does not mean we can’t get a long. You have a right to express your opinion in the comments as well as I do in my own blog, as well as the other writers. Hence why we allow comments.

I disagree with your comment regarding antis and I feel like it’s a generalisation that needs to be looked in to again, nevertheless that’s your views and I have my own. Hate is not a word I use, and SNSD have done far too much in such little time to warrant any posititve attention from me. Hence, why I rather ignore them than cover anything and everything on them. I comment on what I want and so do the other writers, true none of us like SNSD, but that has nothing to do with females in general. That comment to me is uneducated, sterotypical and obnoxious. Judging others only on your beliefs and opinions creates an outline of who you are, and frankly I like to give everyone the benefit of the doubt only for so long. Ever heard of “fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me”? If SNSD had sincerely and personally apologized so many times, then I would have moved on, but only SNSD fans seem to think they’ve found enlightement, apolgized and have completely changed. Unfortunately, that is not my view.

Don’t feel guilty for disagreeing, I know you mean antis in general but that comes from a lot of things from the culture within itself, too much to get in to, in a comment section

Nevertheless don’t feel restricted by commenting at all, just don’t expect to get positive comments in response from users if you attack. Though you seem to be a very well spoken young person so I don’t expect that from you. This is directed to the general reader-base rather than a personal one.